Thanks to situational comedy TV shows like Friends from the 1990’s and more recent reality TV shows on cable TV, the whole idea of adult friends is taking on. In fact, it’s spreading like wildfire across the United States. There are even movies released based on this premise. It seems that everybody has just woken up to the whole concept of friends with benefits.
If you think about it, this is not exactly a new concept. If you’ll look at literature from the 1800’s all the way to ancient literature, there’s always been situations where male and female friendship lead to casual sex from time to time. It seems that the focus is primarily on the friendship and both partners are adult enough that they can safely separate their emotions from their physical bodies so they can fuck safely from time to time.
This is not a new thing. However, thanks to internet hype, it seems that everybody’s crazy about meeting mature women like this sexy lady. Well, there’s a big disappointment to this whole concept because most people are playing it wrong. Seriously, you have to remember that the only way you can develop adult friends and not get burned emotionally is if you start the friendship on the right footing. In other words, you begin your friendship and acquaintance with this person with the understanding that that friendship might lead to something more physical in the future.
If this common understanding is missing, then you are only setting yourself up for all sorts of heartbreak and disappointment. The last thing that you want is to develop a real friend. We’re talking about a friend who will take a bullet for you and pissing it all the way because you decided to fuck her and she got all emotional or you got all emotional and things got weird very quickly. You don’t want to play the game that way.
There’s a tremendous amount of fun to be had with adult women. I’m going to give you that. However, you need to play the game in a systematic and methodical way. You also should not take your eyes off the big picture. Otherwise, you’re playing the game to lose.